Time for what is necessary.

 Just a thought. I understand that making time to talk to someone is neither realistic, nor appealing.  I when I have an issue I have it for a short time and either move on or am not interested in bringing it back up later to "rehash" with someone else who will probably not quite get why I am bothered by it and will likely not have any solutions I will agree with in full.

Having said that, it may be of some use to take a min to, when something presents itself, jot it down quickly, or make a note to jot it down in the first moment it is reasonable to do so and leave it here... I will keep an eye out and perhaps I will be able to understand the immense pressure you are under at work enough to offer something of value. (Or  at least I will get to hear cool stories about my boy)

The last thing I want to do is be a bother or stressor, so do not feel like this is an assignment. I assume you have noticed  that of all the beeps your phone makes, it is rare  that my name is associated with the trigger. It is intentional. 

Everyone keeps telling you that you can't just ignore it but I am here to tell you they are wrong! You can. And I can. I do. And you do. And I am sure you will manage to get by. I would suggest that that particular strategy could be optimized. What is most helpful to me aren't the things I am least interested in hearing from  someone I trust has good reason to believe they should be said. This is that. 

I think you would benefit from explaining what is happening and the way you perceive it and it's importance, in the few min you have available and at the times you are able to take that time to address what you could also  just ignore. I will have no answers  to any questions,  but I likely will have examples of what not to do! It does not always have to be hard,  but easier does require allowing another to share the load.

Semper Fi

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